Saturday, December 11, 2010




Mommy's birds arrive for breakfast early on the morning that she was buried. Rita said she loved to watch them eat and could do so from her seat in the dining room. This picture was taken the morning of her funeral. With all the ground covered in snow, and temperatures around 15 degrees on Backus Mountain, the hungry birds (bluejays, woodpeckers, wrens, chicadees, etc.) were all over the bushes competing for space at the feeder.


Hi Everyone, We just opened our mail and counted 14 Gideon Bibles donated in memory of mother, these are from our church and Gideon friends. We believe there will be many more. We will keep you posted and we will send the thank you cards. The address is (Gideons.org) and click on (How you can help) and then (Give) and that should put you where you can make a donation if you wish. Please let me know if you do so I can keep a count.

Love and Prayers
Hi Everyone, We just made it home. We had rain the last three hours of driving but, that is better than snow :).

Love and Prayers
Addy, I love your tree, and the other decorations you have up, your house looks really pretty.
Is that elves climbing your tree? I think i used to have the same ones years ago for the kids .
we are supposed to get snow today too. Hope we don't
get it like you all are supposed to.
Well today I've been married 45 years.doesn't seem possible, but thats life I guess. Hope everyone has a good Day. Love you All.












Hey Everybody,
I'm glad you've made it home safely and didn't have any/many problems! And it was so nice to see all of you, just wish it could have been for longer. And for those who aren't too far away, I'll be seeing you New Year's!
Teresa, these pictures are for you! That is Teresa's curtain in my dining room. I think it turned out pretty nice. AND that makes 2 Christmas trees for me now! I had to go to Lewisburg yesterday and had some time to kill and found some really cheap stuff that I'm using for my centerpiece now! And disregard the cabinet in the corner, I still have to paint the inside of the door.
Then there's Ladybird, I just thought she looked cute!
I went back to the doctor for a follow up on my gallbladder. He said they did find gall stones when they took it out so it's good they got it when they did!
We're supposed to get another storm today or tomorrow, I think. Hmmm...Snow day?
Til next time,
Love y'all!


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Friday, December 10, 2010

Hello, All we made it home safely to Mich, no snowy roads at all ,Had a safe trip , but sure do miss everyone and Love you all, kinda tired so I got to unpack and do some chores, So I'll post more tomorrow Love you All and Miss you Already.
Hello everyone, just wanted to let you all know that we made it home safely this evening about 6:30. Snow was on the ground until we reached Statesville, N.C. Traffic at times was heavy. We are praying for all those who had to go north into more bad weather.
Love you all and thanks for your prayers.
Michelle we missed you and several asked about you and Tarin, Toria, Aleya and Joe. I will make you a copy of the CD and DVD that Trish provided us. It includes lots of pictures and a powerpoint presentation set to music for both Grandpa and Grandma used during the wakes.
David and Julie
Michelle, we missed you and wish you could've been here with us. You'll have to put an updated pic of you and your family on the blog while Joe is in for Christmas. I know two weeks isn't a long time but I'm sure you all will make the most of it :) When do you think you will be in the States again? I pray as well that everyone traveling has a safe trip home. Hope to see you all New Year's. Love to all!!
I will be praying for you all today as you are traveling or back at home already.  I enjoyed visiting with you.  Love to you all:)  Have a blessed day!

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Sixty-Nine Years

There was a young lady who lived in a house
She was courted and wooed and soon had a spouse.
As they started a life, that included God
Little did they know where all they would trod.
Starting in a coal camp, work was hard.
The mister provided, while the Mrs. Used lard
But that was not all, to cook and to clean,
For soon they were blessed with Vonda Lugene
Love was in the house as they began to multiply
But God had different plans for Marion Kathleen
And Ralph Eugene with a question of Why?
For in Heaven with Him is where He wanted them to be
To help him prepare one day for the rest of the family
They moved to the country to build a big house
As the family grew larger there wasn’t room for a mouse
Along came Ruth Ann, then David Samuel,
And after him was Joseph Daniel.
Next in line was Lonnie Wayne, with all these boys, it must have been a pain
A little girl was due without fail,
Her name was Barbara Gail.
Room for any more? Some might say
And before we knew it Timmy Dean was on the way
In Heaven, as their brother and sister
Wondered if that would suffice
They suggested some sugar and spice and everything nice
A double helping but not all in one day
The family was blessed with Rita Faye and Patricia Kaye
Now God looked upon the children and couldn’t help but believe
They needed one more and they called him Melvin Steve
Sixty nine years passed in all
Some good some bad, but we had a ball
Sharing and caring with all of our hearts
It takes each and everyone to all do our part
Loving and laughing tears and fears
That is what made up these sixty nine years.

Trish 12/09/2010
I received a Sympathy card from Hospice today. The poems read:

When I die if you need to weep
Cry for your brother or sister walking the street beside you
And when you need me, put your arms around anyone
And give them what you need to give me

I want to leave you something
Something better than words or sounds

Look for me in the people I've known or loved
And if you cannot give me away
At least let me live in your eyes and not on your mind

You can love me most by letting hands touch hands
By letting bodies touch bodies
And by letting go of children that need to be free

Love doesn't die, people do
So when all that's left of me is love, give me away
--Author Unknown


I'm There Inside Your Heart

Right now I'm in a different place
And though we seem apart
I'm closer than I ever was...
I'm there inside your heart

I'm with you when you greet each day
And while the sun shines bright
I'm there to share the sunsets, too...
I'm with you every night

I'm with you when the times are good
To share a laugh or two
And if a tear should start to fall..
I'll still be there for you

And when that day arrives
That we no longer are apart
I'll smile and hold you close to me..
Forever in my heart
Today, they are laying my Grandma to rest.
Laying her down beside Grandpa
On a mountain
High up, where the wind whistles
Through the pines,
Laying down her sick, tired body.

Today, there was a shout,
A shout heard through Heaven,
Running on streets of gold,
A celebration.
Today, Grandma danced before her Savior
While Grandpa played his praise with his hands.

That was today.
Someday, it will be my turn.




I could not come, but my heart is with you all.

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

My Grandma by Lorie

Grandma
Apron Strings, Rocking Chairs,
The old red ice crusher atop the stairs
Biscuits and Gravy, Cornbread and Beans
Providing for family, whatever the means
Canning or sewing, so much in a day
Work always to do, but she took time to PLAY
Deep love for God and faith through all times
Makes Vivian, a special Grandma of mine

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Debbie & Doc wrote:
Vonda and family wish I couldl be with you in this time of sorrow. Due to the weather thats not possible but you are in my heart and prayers. I love you so much and I miss you sooo much. May God bless you at this trying time.
Love the Best Pal Deb

from Mommys niece

Sue Merriman wrote:
Dear Family, the more I read of what you have written about your Mother the more I realize how much she is like my Mother, her sister Jerry. I will always remember her smile and the brightness of the twinkle in her eyes, Always a kind word spoken and you could just tell, without being told, that she was a Child of God. She was truely a blessing to all who knew her. May the God of Love and Peace give you comfort thru this time.
All our Love to you and the rest of your family.
Trish

I will just send a donation to the church like I did for Ralph.

I did get the obit. Thanks so much and please tell all your brothers

and sisters how sorry I am, Vivian was one of my favorite aunts.

She was just so sweet and kind I have a lot of good memories

from when I was little and we would come over every summer

when we were back there on vacation. Lunch time was so cozy

in her little tiny kitchen, not to mention busy with all of us there.

Keep in touch please!

Lots of love

Letha

Monday, December 6, 2010

Vivian Hatfield Treadway

Dawson, West Virginia — Vivian Hatfield Treadway (87) of Dawson, began her journey with a shout running down the golden streets of Glory in Heaven on Sunday Morning, December 5, 2010. She was born on May 31, 1923, at Colcord, West Virginia.
Loved ones waiting and cheering her on were her husband of 70 years, Lonnie Ralph, son Ralph Eugene, and daughter Marion Kathaleen. Among others who preceded her to Heavens Gates were her father Homer Ray Hatfield, mother Icie Mae Dillon Hatfield, birth mother Luranie Mae Bowen, brothers Ray and Philip Hatfield, Woodrow Taylor and Harry (Gene) Holstein, and sisters Maxine Smith, Bernice Dickens, and Martha and Violet Wolfe.
Family members waiting to join her are ten children: Vonda (David) Thomas of Brownstown, Michigan; Ruth (Dan) Cadle of Newton Falls, Ohio; David (Julie) of Newberry, Florida; Daniel (Alice) of Providence, Kentucky; Lonnie Wayne (Marcia) of Rainelle; Barbara (Elliott) Slaughter of Dublin, Virginia; Tim of Christiansburg, Virginia; Rita (Blain) McClanahan of Meadow Bridge; Trish (Danny) Hutsenpiller of Dawson; and Steve (Teresa) of Dawson; seven sisters: Naomi Binion, Blanche Cooley, Juanita Wade, Sue Tackett, Helen Wingo, Geraldine Dorsey and Hazel Goodsen; 25 grandchildren; 28 great-grandchildren; 2 great-great-grandchildren; a host of nieces and nephews; and many, many friends.
A list of her achievements would fill numerous pages, but she will be remembered first and foremost as a child of God. Not only was Jesus her Savior, He was her Lord. She was a loving wife, mother and grandmother. As Proverbs 31:28 says: “Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.” All who loved her knew her as a faithful servant and prayer warrior, but the words she used to describe herself were, as the Apostle Paul said, “by the grace of God I am what I am.” She was greatly beloved and left a spiritual legacy to all those who knew her.
A celebration of her life and victory race will be held at The Grassy Meadows Gospel Lighthouse in Grassy Meadows, West Virginia, for family and friends, on Wednesday December 8, 2010, from 6 until 9 p.m. Pastor Butch LeGrand will be presiding over the funeral ceremony to be held at The Gospel Lighthouse at 11 a.m. on Thursday December 9, 2010. She will be buried beside her husband at the Puckett Cemetery in Crag, West Virginia.
In lieu of flowers, please send donations of sympathy to The Grassy Meadows Gospel Lighthouse Building Fund, P. O. Box 218, Mabscott, WV 25871.
Online condolences may be sent to www.christianmemorials.com/tributes/vivian-treadway
Sons-in-law David (honorary), Dan, Elliott, Blain and Danny will serve as pallbearers.
The family would like to extend a special thank you to Wallace & Wallace, The Grassy Meadows Gospel Lighthouse, Kanawha HospiceCare, The Meadow Grove Baptist Church, Dr. Connie Anderson, Nurse Kim Winfrey, Sally Berry, and the numerous friends and family that helped our Mother make ready for her journey.
 
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In Honor of Our Mother, Vivian Hatfield Treadway

In Honor of Our Mother


If I could but for a moment,
Have a brief space of your time,
I would like to share some thoughts I’ve had,
And share with you in Rhyme..

For as a child I knew no fear,
That my mothers Love could not comfort,
The softest words, a touch of her hand,
Would soothe the scariest moment.

Her words were few, her corrections often,
As they settled upon our ears,
I have held them close within my heart,
So dear throughout the years

My Mom, while yet so busy,
With the chores that filled her day,
Was never to occupied with her work,
To share a kindness, it was her way.

We ran, we played, we tracked her floor,
Our clothes soiled to a fright.
But never was my Mom to tired,
To see us all goodnight.

We did our chores, we feed the stock,
We carried in the wood,
Many times—into the night,
We did the best we could.

I’ve seen my Mom up way before dawn,
And at night, work still remained,
But always, Mom, she had a song,
And with her work, would sing.

It mattered not what came our way,
Her faith in God above,
It carried us then, it carries us still,
Trusting in God’s love.

Now I knew not then, what I know now,
Of faith, of courage, and persistence,
Mom taught me silently by her example,
Right is not the path of least resistance.

I have seen her stand, while small in frame,
While many others faltered,
She shared the secret of her strength,
She renewed it at the alter.

Her mind was calm, amidst the storms,
I thought—many times, how odd,
But not knowing then as I know now,
Her foundation, her Rock, was God.

She would look at me and with a smile would say,
We are not out on a limb,
Then she would reach for the old song book,
And with that we would sing a Hymn.

The road she traveled, though long and narrow,
Was filled with much delight,
It was present in her mornings,
And at tuck in time, at night.

Her laughter fills my memories,
Her faith—it fills my heart,
She taught me of her secret,
Of which I will not depart.

Her heart was never empty,
Her feelings—never sore,
For all her many children
Of which, through love—she bore.

Her wisdom far exceeded,
Her years upon this earth,
An angel, ole so sweet at heart,
God’s hand on her from birth.

Yes she taught us of God’s goodness,
And she taught us of his grace,
With assurance that the day would come
We would go to a better place.

Where no more pain, and no more strife,
Will have any place within
The burdens here of this old world,
Remembered—never again.

So you see my friend, now why I asked,
For I too would like to pass along
Mom’s joy that she so freely shared,
As she sang her many songs.

For in them was a presence,
That wasn’t just to hear,
For now I am older, and still when I fear,
I hear my Mom’s voice, so sweetly in my ear.

Her life was a beautiful example,
of God’s love, for that I’m sure,
For all life’s pain and heartaches,
she assured me, it would cure.

Now Mom is a Senior,
and well past her prime
God has called his angel back,
it was just a matter of time.

So please don’t grieve her passing,
Mom has only traveled home,
To be with her Heavenly Father,
to His open outstretched arms.

For all of life’s hardships,
it’s troubles and it’s pain,
They will not pass from this ole life,
to where she now remains.

Her work down here now finished,
The love she always shared,
The joys of one day going home
Again, to be with Dad, and her children there.

Now Our Father, which art in Heaven,
Had an angel to reclaim,
And I hear the sound of trumpets,
Heaven has called out our Mom’s name.

She lived her whole life trusting,
In God’s Word and singing hymns,
And in her passing, she leaves her testimony,
She was true until the end.

It wasn’t diamonds, it wasn’t rubies,
That were cherished in Mom’s life,
It was goodness, kindness and mercy,
That was Mom’s—life cutting knife.

It cut through all the heartaches,
It cut through all the sores.
It cut through all the pains that life,
Could throw and Mama bore.

She said this of her Children,
She said it of the lot,
No diamonds, rubies silver or gold
Is worth any one child I’ve got.

For God has richly blessed me,
And of that you can rest assured,
The only way I could be more blessed,
Is meeting Christ, on heaven’s shore.

She instilled in all her children,
As those who’ve known us, very well know,
We are all living testaments,
Of her Glory, she often told.

So sing now please, and help Celebrate,
The day of my Mom’s birth,
For God has called Mom to heaven,
The most Precious Angel from earth.

Could it be, with God’s consent,
The Angels in Heaven, conspired!
I think you’ll agree, if you just listen closely,
There’s a new voice in Heaven’s Choir.

With all Our love, Mom, someday we will see you there.
Timmy, 12/05/10
Just wanted to let you know that if anybody needs a place to stay when you get in, we have an extra bedroom!
Hello, Know that was one Happy Sunday School Class, we Loved your Dad & Mom. Of course with you & yours that goes double, we're Praying!!!!! Know she will be missed but know that she is where she wanted to be with the Lord & your Dad!!!!!! One day we'll all join them!!!! Love & Prayers, Loretta & Ray
The previous post is what I sent in an email but I forgot to put the link. Here is the link copy and paste if you want and send it to anyone that you know that knew mommy.

www.christianmemorials.com/tributes/vivian-treadway

Memorial

Hi Everyone,
Most of you know by now that Mommy woke up for Sunday School in Heaven yesterday!  How fitting for her to go to Heaven on Sunday!  She died peacefully and just went to sleep.   I have created a Memorial online  for you to share a memory or light a candle, sign the guestbook, place a flower or just to share our memories.  She truly never met a stranger and once you did meet her you were in the family!  Feel free to pass this link on. 
We, the family, appreciate your prayers!
Love to all,
Trish

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Flooding the basement~ too funny Tanner!  Haha  Thanks for reminding us about that, I had forgotten that tidbit. 
Love the poem Emily. Looks like you take after your Mom. Have you written any other poetry. If not, then you sure do have a knack for it.
Yes, Tanner, I remember Mom flooding the basement from the water in the washer, then she would just have us boys sweep it all to the drain until all the water was gone and the floor was clean when it dried. Pretty ingenius.
Dave
Those were beautiful too Tanner , especially about flooding the basement, Love it.

My Memories

Hey everyone, this is Tanner.  Mom said everyone was getting on here and posting their memories from "up on the hill" as Emily has been saying.  Well some of mine are the same as Emilys, such as playin in the room above the stairs, and riding around in the red trialer.  Another that I have is that when Grandpa would go outside to work for the day, Grammaw had this big toybox full of oversized leggos that she would get out for me and by the end of the day the whole kitchen would have turned into a city.  Another I have is Grammaw "Flooding the basement" as I thought of it, but as I got older I realized it was just a way to get me to help clean the basement haha.  She would unhook the water hose from the back of the washer and let about 1-2 inches of water cover the basement floor.  I would always ask her when we were going to flood the basement again haha  Another is when Grandpa would come in after workin outside all day and sit in his chair, Grammaw would always ask me to help her take off his boots.  I could go on and on with memories but I just thought I would throw out a few of them.
Emily , that was beautiful,and it paint's a wonderful picture for us all , of Mommy and Daddy. love it.

The Hill

Much of my childhood was spent way up on a hill, a hill in the middle of the woods.

On this hill there were many things of wonder:

A four wheeler that took me to hidden places way back in the trees,

An ice crusher that gave me small ice with ease,

A dog named Tut that loved to hunt,

And even in the cabinet, a 'few' shotguns.

But what made this hill the most magical of all were not the THINGS residing up there, but a sweet old couple,

an adorable pair.

Grandpa Ralph was a mountain man, in all senses of the word.

He hunted and gardened and, with his binoculars, he watched all of the birds.

He was also an inventor, with no need for store bought things.

He made button loopers, rifle bolts and even his and Grandma's silver wedding rings.

He loved to plant flowers, lilies and honeysuckles,

and you could often see RALPH embossed on his big belt buckle.

He had a love for growing apple trees,

while picking up the apples we often got stung by the bees.

Those apples made the best pies and cider,

it didn't matter that it made our waistlines a little bit wider.

Grandpa was always snapping pictures,

of people and flowers and 'Down on the river.'

"Look at the birdie," he'd say as he snapped the shutter,

taking a picture of me and my brothers.

Music was someting that was dear to his heart,

even though his fingers were stiff with arthritis he could always play his part...

and play it better than anyone else.

Guitar (steel and regular) and the mandolin were a few of his favorite strings,

though he could play a whole bunch of other things.

He usually played hymns, 'Amazing Grace' and 'There is Power',

but every once in a while he'd show off with a pickin' song like 'Wildwood Flower'.

Grandpa seemed tough on the outside, with his worn out overalls and bristley face,

but he was just as soft as that linament paste he used to rub on every ache or pain.

He loved me and my brothers,

and my aunts and my uncles and my many cousins,

and anyone else that happened to walk through their door

and onto that old green porch.

But what Grandpa loved most of all was the Lord, it was hymns he played for a reason you know.

His Bible laid on his cluttery desk, all highlighted and tattered,

a beautiful mess.

He was a man among men, brawny and strong

but there was a person even he relied on daily, the other half of this awesome pair:

my sweet, sweet Grandma.

Grandma Vivian was a housewife,

but that word is not nearly enough to sum up here life.

She lived her life a servant, to God and to others.

From what I can tell, she was an amazing mother.

She would meet us at the door, early in the morning when Mommy would bring me and Tanner on her way to work.

A floury apron aroung her neck, she'd hug us and give us a peck on the cheek.

The house was warm, from the heat from the stove,

though I'd be willing to bet some of it was her radiating love.

She was the most caring, loving woman I ever knew,

I'm thankful that I had her to look to as I grew.

She was the best cook around, anyone would agree.

She'd always have biscuits and gravy for my brothers and me.

She'd sing hymns in the kitchen as she boiled the water

for dumplins or taters...she never was bothered.

Grandma had patience beyond anyone's that I knew,

but with ten kids and 60ish grandkids, nothing else would do.

She was a whiz with a sewing machine,

she made quilts and pillows and hemmed my jeans.

She let me make pillows all of the time

and helped me with the stitches when we got to the end of the line.

She always let me choose which fabric I wanted,

she never told me what she thought I should use.

Grandma played with us all day long,

dress up and school and sometimes baseball.

She made us play-do with different food colorings,

then we'd sculpt up all kinds of crazy things.

She taught me how to spell 'monotonous' one day on the hill,

that's a word I'll never forget how to spell.

When she sang it was low and slow,

out of her chest the words to 'Wadin' Through Deep Waters" would flow.

Grandma loved Jesus more than anything.

If I ever needed prayer I'd give her a ring,

and I'd always feel better almost instantly.

She told me Bible stories of Jonah and David,

and always spoke of God's awesome glory.

I can't put into words the love Grandma had for Jesus,

just like I can't express how much she means to me.

Although Grandma and Grandpa have both moved on,

and are now praising God with their Heavenly song,

their memories and legacy will live on and on.

It's not only me, with tales and stories

of life on that hill with the morning glories,

but seventy others...my family,

all a part of this wonderful tree,

planted and tended to by this sweet pair,

My Grandma and Grandpa--no others compare.

Timmy Wayne and Daniells little angel Deagan, with Santa


look what I found!

 
 
 
 
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Praise the Lord for taking grandma home!  Love you all!
I had a thought this morning of Grandma hanging an ice crusher in her heavenly mansion! Gettin' ready for all us kids to come Home!

Last Christmas

How wonderful and awesome it is to know she has looked on the face of our Savior.
Grandma, kiss Grandpa for us.
Praise God! What a wonderful Christmas, knowing they are together, young again, not in pain, and dancing with the angels.
We love you all.
Yes, Praise the Lord, Mom is spending Christmas with Jesus this year.
Love and Prayers to all

Sweet Mommy

Mommy went to Heaven this morning! She took her last breath here and her first breath there at 4:09 am. Bobbie, Ruth and I were at her side and it was so peaceful.

We have a thought for you

Merry Christmas From Heaven

I still hear the songs I still see the lights
I still feel your love on cold winter nights
I still share your hopes and all of your cares
I'll even remind you to please say your prayers
I just want to tell you, you still make me proud
You stand head and shoulders above all the crowd
Keep trying each moment to stay in His grace
I came here before you to help set your place
You don't have to be perfect all of the time
He forgives you the slip if you continue the climb
To my family and friends, Please be thankful today
I'm still close beside you in a new special way
I love you all dearly Now don't shed a tear
Cause I'm spending my Christmas with Jesus this year
Hey, Everyone! I hope Grandma is peaceful today. Much love to all of you.
Yes, Monica, we have some hills to sled down! I live in the little village of Vilseck with 6,300 people. We are on a smaller mountain about 1,350 ft above sea level. But about 30 minutes away are some mountains around a large city called Amberg and it is about 2,500 feet up. That is almost as tall as Backus Mt. We are also really close to the Bavarian Alps with mountains 9,721 ft tall, and the Swiss Alps are just across the border. They are even taller there. We go to a resort in the small town of Garmish-Partenkirchen in the Alps. That is the two towns Hitler forced to combine (he threatened to send them to Dachau) for the Olympics, and they have stayed combined. Beautiful skiing there, with the farms and mountains. It is nothing to see famous people in the area on ski vacations. And Olympians often practice there. But I don't ski--I hate the ski lifts. I am afraid of heights, but Joe and Aleya aren't.
I love your pictures by the Christmas tree. And Marleigh is so cute :)
We have less than a month until Joe comes home for 2 weeks on R&R, so we are starting to decorate now.
Love to you all!